Author Archives: Stephanie Dreyer

About Stephanie Dreyer

Stephanie Dreyer is the founder of VeegMama, a lifestyle brand sharing new approaches to healthy living and eating. She encourages her readers to live their best life every day through food, wellness, and personal fulfillment. She is also a children's book writer and mom of three. Stephanie was most recently featured on KCAL 9 in Los Angeles and Chickpea Magazine. She is a contributing author in the #1 Amazon Bestselling Book, Sexy Fit and Fab Sirens. Her new ebook, VeegMama's Guide To Going Vegan is available on Amazon Kindle, Nook, and iBooks. Visit my blog at http://veegmama.com.

The Power of Inspiration

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I have been struggling a lot the past few weeks with my writing.  I just don’t feel like doing it.  When I sit down to the page, nothing comes to me, and when it does, it feels forced.  I like nothing that I write.  This is unusual for me.  I don’t have huge blocks of time to write so when I do get the opportunity, I usually just pour it all out, sometimes finishing drafts within an hour or less.  I feel an energy surge through me and a sense of joy that I am doing what I love.

Not so much these past few days.  After speaking with my life coach last week, he reminded me that I always felt inspired at those times of writing flow.  He encouraged me to write on the page “I don’t know what to write” if I was feeling uninspired.  I did this today and kept writing it until my pen started coming up with ideas about what I should be writing – that book that came to me when my daughter asked me to read her a book – or that other book that was sparked by my son’s funny story after school.  I soon wanted to open up a manuscript I had started right after my aunt passed away 6 months ago, inspired by something that my daughter said to me.  The words poured out of me (along with many tears).  I wrote a draft in 20 minutes.  It was the most emotionally charged writing I have every done – and maybe my best.

It got me thinking.  I must not underestimate the power of inspiration.  I don’t care how many ideas I have for books.  If they are not inspired internally, pushing me on some emotional level, I really struggle.  Maybe this isn’t every writer’s process, but I just discovered that it is for me.  I need to stick with the projects that made me stop and write something down…the notes I left myself to put something together with them later.  That is what brings me to the page energized and focused.   I learned an important lesson today on my writer’s journey.

 

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Ways to Get Inspired by Lee and Low

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I am a big fan of publisher Lee and Low.  Their unique and multi-cultural books inspire and remind me of my purpose as a writer for children.  I especially enjoy receiving their newsletter for authors and illustrators, always full of useful info and tidbits.  Here’s a snippet from last week’s letter which you can read in full by clicking here.

Here are three ways to get inspired as you set new goals for the year ahead:

  1. Read a book in a genre that’s completely different from the genres you usually read.
  2. Read some of the posts in author Nova Ren Suma’s greatTurning Points blog series, where authors answer the question, “What was your turning point as a writer?”
  3. Pick one author or illustrator whose work you’ve admired from afar and reach out to that person. Perhaps she or he may have just the right advice for you!

I Kickstarted My Writing Career with CBW-LA

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I attended a fantastic workshop this past Saturday, organized by the Children’s Book Writers of Los Angeles. “Kickstart Your Writing Career” was led by Nutschell Windsor, CBW-LA’s Founder. In two hours, she led the group in a goal setting, motivational workshop that was productive and informative (Nutschell always provides great handouts that have been researched and well planned).

I came out of the workshop energized and prepared with a plan of attack to achieve my writing goals this year. I have long-term (monthly and yearly) and short-term goals (daily, weekly), and was finally able to come up with some kind of writing schedule based on my life’s daily changing needs.

The next CBW-LA meet up is in February – a critique session, the perfect follow up to a goal setting workshop. If you haven’t checked them out, be sure to look CBW-LA on Meetup and consider joining.

http://www.meetup.com/CBW-LA/

Guest Blogger

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A fellow writer, Nutschell Windsor, keeps a great blog called “The Writing Nut.”  Every Wednesday, she features a guest writer in a post called “The Writer’s Workspace.”  I am featured there today!  Check me out:

http://www.thewritingnut.com/wednesday-writers-workspace/wednesday-writers-workspace-welcomes-stephanie-dreyer/

Synchronicity

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(n): The simultaneous occurrence of events that appear significantly related but have no discernible causal connection.

I love this word.  Even more, I love to see it in action.  I believe in the power of the Universe to deliver whatever it is we want (the trick is in defining what we want and then asking for it).  So, I hold a lot of weight in synchronicity.  There are signs all around us every day, and when we start to see them and let them guide us, it is truly a gift from the Universe (or so I think!).

Last week was my first week as an official freelance communications writer, giving me more time to focus on my children’s writing.  I changed a steady gig I had with a Client to give me more time and flexibility in my schedule as I delve deeper into freelance writing.  As I started my new working schedule last week, I was very organized with my time and my focus, outlining specific tasks and checking them off as I went.  I even went so far as to map out such a schedule for the month, with a plan to update it every month moving forward.

One of these tasks was to read Writing Picture Books by Ann Whitford Paul, recommended to me by a fellow scribbler in The Children’s Book Writers of Los Angeles (http://www.meetup.com/CBW-LA/) several months ago.  It had sat on my bookshelf for a while, but I eagerly pulled it out last week.  As I did, I noticed the author’s name and immediately was hit with a dose of synchronicity.  As part of my new work week, I have given myself 10-15 picture books to read each week.  After reading Tortuga In Trouble (by Ann Whitford Paul) two weeks ago, I checked out several more of her  titles last week because my son and I enjoyed her stories so much.  I didn’t realize that she was also the writer of this picture book resource.

As I read the first few pages of the book, I immediately knew I was in good hands and that I found a worthwhile read in this book – another gem found on my literary life path.  I decided to take the coincidence of events – discovering her children’s books and then picking up her writer’s book in the same week (after sitting on my shelf for months) – as a sign that I am on the right path to my writer’s life.  I see it as reinforcement that I am taking the right steps to become a better children’s writer, and encouragement to keep chugging along.

For what it’s worth, I wanted to share this bit of synchronicity and encourage you to see the signs.  They just might give you the energy boost or motivational charge you need to take that next step on your literary path.

Children’s Book Insider

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A writer can never have too many resources.  I have a great one for you: Children’s Book Insider (www.write4kids.com).  This website is bursting with information to help you become a better writer, find an agent/publisher, and get connected to other writers.  Their online newsletter provides articles on craft, as well as agents looking for submissions.

After joining (which was a nominal fee), I started browsing the series of tutorials available and was overwhelmed with the options.  There is lots to do and see on this site!  Upon joining, I also joined “The Clubhouse” and got connected with a critique group.  I was very excited to discover this opportunity, as my past group has kind of dissolved.

I am still discovering all that this resource has to offer, but am excited to have this new source and connection to the children’s writing community.  Check it out!

Perfecting Our Craft

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One of the biggest (and most important) takeaways from SCBWI-LA’s Writer’s Day last month was the fact that no matter how good the query or the referral you get to an editor/agent, it won’t help you at all if the work isn’t good.  This is obvious, however, critical.  We must always be working on our craft.  We must be actively finding ways to improve our work.  We can all write, but to write well is the most critical step towards becoming an author. 

Here are a few of the ways I actively work on my craft:

1. Read what I want to write.  I read a lot of picture books.  This is my favorite genre to write.  With every picture book I read, I gain valuable insight into what works and what doesn’t work in dialogue, plot, setting, etc.  I also read chapter books and YA novels, genres I also want to write. 

I get an even more valuable education when I read aloud to my children – chapter books and picture books, especially.  I hear first hand what makes them giggle (or not).  With my eight year-old, we read the same book on our own and then talk about it.  Reading with my kids is one of the best things I do on a daily and weekly basis for my writing.

2. Join a critique group.  I submit my work to an online group.  In return, I critique others’ work in the group.  Being a part of a community that is working towards the same goal is motivating and helps to keep focused.  I also learn a lot from my fellow writers – problem areas to avoid, tactics that work, and themes that inspire.  Of course, I also get trained feedback from a community that is supporting each other to succeed.

3. Take writing classes.  I love UCLA’s extension program, but my schedule has made it difficult to attend a class in years.  I just registered for Anastasia Suen’s Chapter Book course.  I am excited to try an online course, learning at my pace in the comfort of my home.  I think classes are great for many reasons.  Aside from the obvious skills and knowledge you learn in an area you are seeking, you also get the regular discipline of writing weekly, feedback from a published author, and community with other writers.

4. Read books on writing.  I have a stack of these on my bookshelf.  I admit that I have not been as diligent in this area, but I aim to.  There are some great resources out there that can only add to my knowledge and help in some way.  Many books offer exercises and writing prompts that get you writing too. 

Read.  Write.  Critique.  They all add up to perfecting the craft.  What do you do to improve your writing?

Finding Time To Write

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Juggling a part-time job, three kids, volunteer commitments and my writing career is challenging.  We all struggle with finding time to write and work on our writing careers.  It is easy to use lack of time  as an excuse to push our writing to the side.  I have done it often.  But with a few adjustments and change in mindset, I am finding it easier to be a working mom and focus on my passion.

Last month’s issue of Children’s Writer (March 2012) offered some great tips (by Marcie Flinchum Atkins):

– Pack a writing bag: When she’s waiting to pick up the kids, she can read and critique someone else’s writing, edit a piece she’s been working on or brainstorm ideas for a project.  If you keep a bag ready and loaded with whatever you need, you are always ready to go.

I just started packing a bag this past week.  In it, I have my writing journal, pencil/pen, a hard copy of whatever manuscript I am working on, copies of Writers Digest that I need to read, and copies of a children’s magazine that I am researching for queries.

– Share homework: While her kids do homework, Marcie researches markets, competitive titles, topics or reading publications.  I thought this was a great idea and can’t believe I never thought of it! 

– Double-Duty storytime: This is my favorite suggestion.  Use bedtime stories as an opportunity to read the genres you are writing.  This is golden time to learn about the market, while sharing special time with your kids (and passing down your passions of reading and writing).  I am blessed to have an 8, 6 and 3 year-old, making it easy to read picture books, easy reader/chapter books and middle grade novels in an evening.  I find my kids also make comments about the stories we read, which gives me great insight and sometimes ideas about other stories I can write.

Nothing is easy, but with a little creativity, you can find time to work on writing.  I’d love to hear your tips for fitting writing into your daily schedule.

SCBWI Writer’s Days 2012

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I made my annual trip to San Gabriel on Saturday for one of my favorite writer’s conferences: SCBWI-LA’s Writer’s Days.  As usual, the SCBWI-LA team did not disappoint.  The day’s schedule included inspiration and motivation from some wonderful authors of all genres, including Lee Wardlaw (my family loved her new book, Won Ton) and Dawn Knobbe. 

My favorite part of the day was a panel with debut author (and fellow SCBWI member), Sara Wilson Etienne, her agent Michael Bourret and editor, Stacey Barney (Putnam Books).  They took us through the process of acquiring an agent, getting the book sold, and then published.  Later, Sara did a fantastic job of walking us through her promotional campaign for her book.  It was fun!  Educational it was, but equally enlightening, was the humanity that we gained in seeing an author/agent/editor in the flesh talking about the journey.  Yes, they really are people like you and me.  Yes, they get nervous too.  Yes, they stay up late into the night reading a good book.  Encouraging, my friends. 

In this period I am currently in, where I anxiously drag my feet towards finding an agent, I found the discussion disarming and helpful.  It was just what I needed.  I also have to recommend the critique service.  I had one of my picture book manuscripts ready and knew I just needed a professional jolt (either to tell me it wasn’t that good or to give me the thumbs up).  The critique did just that and I am off on my quest for an agent.  Although I have been rambling about doing this since last summer, my heart is finally into it.  Thank you SCBWI-LA for that bit of confidence to spur me onward.